Alyson Kernaghan, Queensland
I lost my sister to suicide in July 2018, and it was only 6 months later I applied to be part of the Lived Experience Advisory Group for StandBy. I didn’t entirely know what I expected or what I could contribute, I just knew I had to do something within the suicide prevention space and that I needed to connect and work with others who had had similar experiences and who understood the unimaginable journey that suicide bereavement is.
What would you like to see the group achieve?
Our group is comprised of 10 incredible individuals from varying backgrounds and with varying experiences of bereavement by suicide, all whom are my hero’s. My hope for the group is that we may have influence on how people understand suicide bereavement and mental illness. We have the goal of supporting StandBy to provide the most effective service, resources and to work towards reducing stigma within our respective communities and around Australia
What have you gained by taking part? Through my work with these amazing individuals I have gained a deeper understanding of the importance of connection and an appreciation for the incredible complexities that suicide bereavement brings. It has also inspired me to delve deeper into my work in this space, having completed ASIST (Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training), my Diploma of Community Services and advocating more within my workplace. I am more confident in providing effective support to my young clients with mental health challenges or those who present in crisis.
What would you like the public to know about suicide?
My greatest hope is that one day our society will accept and treat mental illness as they do physical illness. For this to ever be a reality, we must first challenge our cultural expectations, one conversation at a time.


