Lived Experience Advisory Group

Kirsty Talbot-Male, South Australia

When I lost my husband to suicide 13 years ago there was very little support available and I had to navigate this difficult journey with the help of family and friends who were also grieving. StandBy was not yet available in my area.  During my road to recovery I was determined that support would be available in the future. When I found StandBy 2 years ago, I shared my story at a number of workshops, but I still wanted to do more.

By joining the Advisory Group, I can now provide input into decisions about processes and practices and help with educational materials and action plans for StandBy.  I really want to ensure that StandBy is available to all Australians.

What would you like to see the group achieve? As a group I believe we have a powerful combined voice of Lived Experience. We can speak from the heart, be ambassadors for StandBy on political platforms, support the development of resources and processes. We can share our stories and work together to reduce the stigma of talking about suicide and support the community to look after everyone’s mental health.

What have you gained by taking part? 

By taking this opportunity I have learnt so much from other group members, we all understand the journey and support each other.  We work together to educate communities, we strive to prevent suicide as well as support others bereaved by suicide. I have received training, attended conferences to keep up with current research and practices. I now feel confident to speak up about the appropriate language to use when talking about suicide. The most important thing I have gained is the knowledge of StandBy and to promote this amazing service and the wonderful people who are there to help!

What would you like the public to know about suicide?            I would like everyone to know that there is hope after suicide. It can happen to anyone. The more we talk about suicide the more chance we can help save lives. If we all do our part, we can make a difference.

Find out more about the Lived Experience Advisory Group
Kirsty Talbot-Male, South Australia
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StandBy is QIP Accredited as an organisation. Implemented by Suicide Prevention Australia and assessed by independent, not-for-profit accreditation provider, Quality Innovation Performance Limited (QIP), the Suicide Prevention Accreditation Program supports organisations to deliver safe, high-quality and effective suicide prevention and postvention programs.

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StandBy recognises and honours the continued contribution of those with a lived experience of suicide bereavement. The courage, insight and wisdom of these unique experiences, strengthens the work that we do. We also acknowledge and remember the lives that have ended due to suicide and we encourage ongoing support and care for yourself and each other.

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